Tuesday, August 21, 2012

The Next Time I Meet Rob Thomas . . .

I seriously need to be cooler! I am such a blubbering idiot! Even with my idiocy however, I still had the absolute, one hundred percent, most amazing, dream fulfilling best night of my life! I do not know where to start so, in my true fashion of lengthy storytelling, I will start at the beginning! Here we go . . .

So, last Friday, while driving the little boy I aide back from his speech therapy, I heard the next cue to call in for the Matchbox Twenty Pop-up Lounge (and a Hawaii trip, but in all honesty, I wanted the MB20 tickets more) put on by Alice 97.3. Now as a lot of you know, I have been winning quite a lot from them-- Disneyland tickets twice, Kelly Clarkson tickets; so I thought there was no real way I could win these, plus it was the last chance of the last day that they were giving away the lounge tickets. I called anyway, and I called-- and called. I nearly crashed my car when Marcus D. aka. the most awesome DJ in the world answered the phone! I screamed, I think I said some inappropriate things; all in all, I was thrilled! 
After I won, I instantly started researching on the venue. From what I could tell, the place was small-- standing room only and if I had any chance of getting to the front of the stage, I had to get there early. Well, Kris switched work shifts so he could join me (more I think he was worried I would climb onto the stage and ravage Rob Thomas . . . entirely possible) so I informed him, we had to leave by 1:45, even though the concert didn't start until 7pm. He did as I asked because he knew that this was something I had been trying to do since I was 12, thankfully he isn't the type of guy who would ruin that for me. So we left at a quarter to 2 and got to the lounge around 3:15.  Oddly enough, the lounge was on the back side of The Salt House-- the restaurant Kris and I ate at almost a month ago exactly before we saw LeMis. Anyway, when we turned the corner, I saw this huge line and my heart sank! I thought that arriving nearly 4 hours early would have ensured me a close spot but from the looks of the line, I was very wrong. That is, until we got closer. Come to find out, there is a coffee shop in the Harlot Lounge (where the concert was to be) and its super busy all day-- the line was for coffee! I ran past the caffeine freaks to the front door where only two other ladies were standing; they were there maybe 30 minutes earlier than me. I was so happy that they were the only ones, but I was selfishly disappointed that I wasn't the first one. I felt that way until I heard these women talking about Matchbox Twenty-- I felt like I knew NOTHING about the band! I was put to shame in my obsession! They have followed Rob and the boys everywhere! Met them multiple times! Texted their manager casually! They deserved that front spot and they were super nice too.

 As we waited, more people filed in behind us but still not as many as I was expecting. Kris I could tell was not as thrilled about waiting outside for so long but he didn't complain he is so sweet. The wait ended up going by pretty quick thanks to my hero-- Marcus D.
                                               (Gah, I am not photogenic . . . anyway)



 He showed up and spoke with the few of us in the front of the line. He told us stories about his own Rob Thomas obsession and how he got to meet him the first time. Marcus then asked us if we had any questions we wanted to ask Rob and Kyle . . . I nearly exploded with excitement! Now, I didn't know until we got there but it wasn't the whole band performing, just Rob Thomas and Kyle Cook, they were going to do an acoustic set. I was so stoked although I was sad that Paul Duocette wasn't going to be there because he and I share a birthday and I wanted to bond over that! Anyway, the question that I had was really only pertinent to Rob so I was good. My question was (and has been for years and years and years, or “days and days and days”) was why boxes and why little yellow tags? This is from the song “Real World” off MB20’s first album. I have always loved the line and I swore, if I ever got to meet Rob Thomas, I would ask the man who wrote it. So when Marcus asked if there were any questions, I nearly died. Let me just say again how much I love Marcus D! He apparently liked me too because he ensured that my almost birthday would be a spectacular one. Okay, so back to my play-by-play: We continued waiting and we got to know the people around us pretty well. There were two people directly behind us that ended up playing a key role in my wonderful night as well. Jason and Arlana are two art students at the Academy of Art University in SF. 

This lounge concert would be Jason’s first ever concert so he was obviously excited to be getting something so up-close for his first time. Arlana on the other hand, was a seasoned pro at concert going and was quite learned in her musical knowledge. We chatted for a while about art school, music, religion—a lot of stuff from numerous categories. During these chats, Matchbox Twenty was doing their sound checks and we could hear and kind of see them through the window! I was freaking out by this point because, well—just that was closer than I had ever been to them! 

                                                          Kyle Cook

                                               Rob Thomas

It was about a half hour before we were to go inside when Marcus comes out and informs us there will be a raffle for meet and greet opportunities. I could have thrown up and peed myself, I was so damn excited! I tried to contain myself by continuing idle small talk, but all I could think about was being face to face with the man I have idolized for oh-so long! It was then I looked down by Kris’ foot and noticed a quarter on the floor. I told Kris to pick it up, because well . . . it was a quarter! He looked at the back and saw it was a new state quarter, at the top it said “Chickasaw”, Kris didn’t know where that was so I grabbed it from him and confirmed my knowledge that it was in fact an Oklahoma quarter! My home state! Right there, saying “Hey, I know you love MB20, don’t worry- I am lucky!” Yep! That is what that quarter told me! With this new found reassurance, I was over the moon excited! After another 20 minutes, the doors opened and they let us inside. I got my raffle ticket and ran to the stage; which to my surprise was super low to the ground, super small and there was an open bench RIGHT IN FRONT OF IT! Not only right in front of the stage but right in front of Rob Thomas’ microphone . . . where he would be standing, within grabbing distance from me! AHHHHHHH!!!!

                                    
                                               (I seriously look horrendous in this picture)
 I couldn’t stop shaking, I had to get up and pee like three times just from nerves! I was flipping out! I was so close, that my camera did not need to zoom in what so ever in order to get great, detailed shots! I put Kris on camera duty though because I didn’t want to miss one second of the amazing-ness because of blurry shots or other camera issues. Arlana and Jason were teasing me the whole time because I was freaking out so bad. They were so sweet though because Arlana asked Jason if she won the raffle, would it be okay for her to take me up instead of him! I refused of course because that wouldn’t be fair to Jason; he wanted to go up if he could. Anyway, the time came to draw the raffle tickets. I held mine like I were holding on to a bible on my death bed. Marcus called out the first number “369”—not me. He called out the next . . . still not me. Marcus finally called out the last number and once again, it wasn’t me! I cried a little bit, I admit it. I was so very sad, I saw my face time with the one and only Rob Thomas dwindle away. I knew I was still amazingly lucky to be that close to the stage but, to truly meet Rob Thomas that was my dream.
I couldn’t be sad for long though because a few moments later, Rob Thomas and Kyle Cook adorned the stage. It was magnificent, glorious, perfect and every other adjective that could also be used to describe heaven. 



They were so close, I could smell them (as creepy as that sounds). I couldn’t even make my eyes focus at first, they were just there! Right in front of me! My years of wanting to be front row all came to this moment and it was more than I could have ever dreamed! Thankfully I didn’t cry like a baby; honestly, I couldn’t even breathe. Thankfully, Marcus broke the tension within me when he started asking questions, I knew my question was going to be answered soon.
After some adorable, witty banter was exchanged between the three boys, Marcus says its time for some audience questions. He points to me and says “This one is from Arynn and its her birthday by the way” Rob Thomas looks right at me, smiles and says “Oh, Happy Birthday Arynn!” I am still freaking out from it! That is when Kyle Cook looks at me and sarcastically says “She doesn’t look excited to be here at all!” I am sure my face was somewhere between mid-silent scream, seizure and pure elation. Marcus then starts to ask the question, and then he asks the question wrong! I couldn’t help my rudeness, I screamed “No, no, no! That’s not right!” Thankfully, Marcus wasn’t offended and let me ask the question myself—I apologized to him later though for my outburst. So I asked the question properly, Kyle commented by saying that that was a great line from the song and then Rob said this:
                                      
I had a feeling that this was the case for this particular line, but I am still so glad I got to ask! And in the video, whenever Rob looks down, he is looking down at me! ME! Ahhh! I can't believe it! I can hear myself laughing and I sound like such a dork but I couldn't help it!

So, after the Q&A, Rob and Kyle played their new song "She's So Mean" which sounded amazing in acoustic and live...and coming from them, right in front of me! They answered more questions and played more songs and continued being adorable. I won't go into every detail of every word they said and every move they made, even though I could-- I do have to go to work today though.


























                        The last batch of those are some professional ones from the Alice 97.3 site

If you want to watch the full thing, Alice 97.3 will have video up on their website hopefully by the end of today, but I am not a hundred percent sure. I would have put more of my videos up but blogger is freaking out on me again! They will be on Facebook by the end of today though!

When the concert was finishing up, my heart started sinking again because I knew, in the next few moments, Rob and Kyle would be off that stage and gone from my sight and grabbing distance! To dig the knife in deeper, Rob hopped off stage and went up to one of the women who were in front of us in line and kissed her on the cheek, thanking her for her devotion and Twitter stalking. Then, just like that, they were gone! I wanted to cry! I reached into my purse and pulled out the two concert tickets I had from 2003, my very first concert and very first Matchbox Twenty concert ever-- I had hoped I could get Rob to sign them. Now though, they were just fond memories, minus a famous hand. Marcus came over and I thanked him for asking my question and apologized for interrupting him so rudely. Before I could even think of anything else to say Arlana jumped in an asked if Marcus could get my tickets signed for me! Why hadn't I thought of that?! I suppose if I wasn't so near passing out from the sight of Rob Thomas, I might have thought of it. Anyway, Marcus looked for a good, long second at the tickets and then looked up at me and said "You know what, you will be my plus-one" . . . Plus- one?!! I am Marcus' plus- one?! I began to cry again, I was going to do it! I was going to officially meet Rob Thomas!!! The next few minutes flew by, I tried to contain myself and not cry so much that I turned into a red, blotchy mess. Then Marcus called me over and just like that we were in an elevator, heading up to meet the boys! I was oddly calm, mainly because I was in shock. I couldn't form words, thoughts or actions. I held onto my tickets and the sharpie and followed Marcus like a lost puppy. He informed me that since I was with him, we would go last-- fine with me, whenever I meet Rob would be perfect, I won't complain! So we went to the back of a long line and next to this little room. It only took me a second to realize, Rob and Kyle were in that room! After another second, Marcus and I were being put into that room! We were actually going first! I stood there, looking at Rob who was talking to his manager and then all of a sudden, Rob makes eye contact with me, swoops around his manager and comes in for a hug!!!! He doesn't give me a half-way, crappy side hug, or even a short hug but a long, squishy, open-palm on the back perfect hug! I can still feel it! It was insane! Amazing! Wonderful! He smelled like Rob Thomas, I can't explain it any other way. I am just glad Kris doesn't read my blog because he would be very jealous of how much I am obsessing over this hug. After Rob lets go for a second, he still holds onto my arms and says "How old are you if you don't mind me asking?" I wasn't going to explain how I still had two days until my birthday so I just said "25". He then laughs and says "Oh cool, you won't be upset at me for asking your age then." Now if I were cooler like the beginning of this blog suggests, I could have said "Oh, well, next time you ask me, I promise to get upset so you can console me" or even "How could I get upset with you Rob?" but no, instead I giggle like an idiot. I say something about how this is a dream come true for me and he says thanks for coming and he is so glad he could meet me. Next thing I know, another girl is standing next to me . . . the epitome of cool. Her name is "Pepper", she has tattoos that instantly draw Rob's attention, he goes and grabs her arms to look at them. Soon they are discussing bands and she says how she is going t have the lyrics of "Push" tattooed on her forearm soon. All I can do is nod and agree how Push is my favorite song as well. My only solace is, she didn't get a hug from him! Ha! I win! Oh, that sounds mean and vindictive, but hey, she clobbered me in "cool factor".

 My eyes then met up with Kyle's, who made a similar swooping motion to Rob's and came over to wish me a happy birthday. He also asked me how old I was and said he was happy they could make my 25th so special. I wanted to kiss them both, they made my 25th birthday the best day of my life and they will never know just how much that means to me. Marcus then pulled me over to take pictures with them. At first, I stood with my arms around Rob and Marcus, but Marcus being my hero says to Rob "Can she actually stand between you and Kyle?" Rob says of course and I switch places. I am then trying to suck in, push my chin out and pray for an awesome photo because it is the only one I will have of us, together. 
                                               Best night of my life...thanks to these men!

I am then ushered out of the way for other people to take their photo in the small back room. Marcus is pulling me out the door but I am fighting him, screaming "I love you! Thank you! You guys are the best!!" but Marcus finally wins and the door shuts behind us. It was then I look down at my hand and see my unsigned tickets are being clenched and neglected. I look up at Marcus and tell him how I forgot to have them sign my tickets, he looks at me and says how its too late. I have a moment of panic. but then I remember that one of the meet and greet winners was one of the ladies in front of us in line. I look for her but I don't see her anywhere among the 30 bustling people. It was then I notice that Rob and Kyle are walking just a few people behind us. I tried to turn around and talk to them, but everyone was talking to them and I felt like I would be very selfish to take away from other people's time. I gave up and walked towards the elevator, looking back longingly at the two men who made my night perfect. Marcus was getting a little annoyed with me for trying to stick around as long as possible. As the elevator doors were closing, I saw that the meet and greet winners were only getting a quick photo taken with the boys and were then being pushed away and taken out. I realized how lucky I was for being the DJ's plus-one and not a raffle winner because I got a solid 5 minutes of interaction whereas the others got maybe 20 seconds. We got to the floor level and I saw Kris, Arlana and Jason waiting outside. I gave Marcus D a big hug and thanked him multiple times and then I went outside. I told everyone how I forgot to have them sign the tickets and they were shocked at my spaciness. They came to my rescue again however, and made me stand in front of the side door to wait for Rob and Kyle to come out. To my surprise, it only took them about 3 minutes to come out meaning they got through 30 people super quick in the meet and greet. Kris shoved the tickets at Rob and he came out the door and asked him to sign them for me! Rob did and as he looked at the tickets he was like "Oh wow! This was a while ago!" I managed to get out a full sentence and said how it was my first concert ever and it was a dream come true to see them. Rob and Kyle stuck around and took pictures with Arlana and Jason and a few others who didn't get to go upstairs. It took all my effort to not cut in front of them and get another hug (I already got two before that upstairs so I knew it was their turn). After a few more minutes of pictures and short comments, they were pushed into their van and whisked away. I couldn't believe that it was over and I really couldn't believe that it all happened in the first place! Kris and I got Arlana's and Jason's contact info so we could send them photos and keep in touch. Then we said our good byes and were off to BART. I couldn't stop smiling and when we were finally at the BART station, waiting for the train, it all hit me at once:


All in all, it was an amazing night. I can't thank Rob Thomas, Kyle Cook, Marcus D, Arlana, Jason and Kris enough for making my night possible You all will never know just how happy you made me. Just how content I feel and how many dreams are now fulfilled. You all are my heroes!

                             
                        My signed tickets and my lucky quarter!



1 comments:

ECo said...

WOW! Just WOW!! You are a lucky duck (but you deserve it!)

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