Tuesday, July 31, 2012

The Beach, Dogs and 24601!!

So this past week, I got to go to Santa Cruz for a week long beach trip with Kris' family. We did this a couple of years ago and it was a lot of fun, even though I was sick the last time. Thankfully however, I felt fine this time and got to enjoy every second of the vacation!

Where to start? So we got to the beach the first day and it was sunny and warm but by the time Kris and I got there, it was already pretty late so we just hung out in the beach house. The house is right on the shore, with direct access down from the balcony so it was really nice...

This was the view from the bedroom window. Falling asleep to the sound of crashing waves every night is pretty amazing. I wish I could bring that spot with me whenever I wanted to take a nap!

The first night we were there, Kris' sister and brother in law came down and they brought a birthday cake for Karen (Kris' mom) so we all got to have some yummy cake with dinner.
The next day was a gloomy one. The sun never really came out so everyone mostly stayed inside. Kris and I spent most of the day driving around, getting things from the store and relaxing when we got back. We did eventually go take our first walk out on the beach... it was nice just to breath in the air and listen to the waves crashing into the shore.


The next day is when the fun really started. Kris has wanted to try paddle boarding for a long time. I thought he just wanted to float around a lake or a pond, but then he says he wants to try it in the ocean! If that wasn't crazy enough, he then said he thinks it would be easier to try and surf on the paddle board since you are already standing up... Yeah... So I have surfed before, I am no expert but I have surfed. Having surfed, I know just how mean the ocean can be so I broke it to Kris that there is no good way to surf while already standing unless you are super pro at it-- which neither of us were. So I talk him into getting surf board instead. I could teach him how to stand up and paddle and catch the right waves, which meant he would have to listen to me...which is apparently impossible for him in these situations. We go and get the surfboards, where the guy renting them to us says we are wasting our money because there are no waves. Well, he couldn't have been more right and more wrong at the same time. There were waves, waves like I have never seen! These waves were never ending! One right after the other, with only a few seconds in between and they were strong too! Like I said, I have surfed before and most of it is sitting and waiting for a wave to come, but we couldn't even sit on our board because another wave would crash into us sending us spinning under water. Now, I -- having surfed before, recognized that this was hopeless pretty early on, but my stubborn boyfriend decided that he was a professional surfer already and could tackle these impossible waves. I had to go back out into the death zone to convince him to come back in. After we both swallowed most of the ocean, nearly got decapitated by our boards and crawled back onto the shore on all fours...we gave up. It was not a very pleasant experience. So yes surfer rental guy, we did waste our money, but not because there weren't any waves!


Its hard to tell in those pictures...but it was an ugly experience. Take my word for it!

So after that bit of "fun", Kris and I spent the rest of the day nursing out beaten bodies with rest and junk food. Next time, hopefully will be better!

The following day (Tuesday), we planned on heading into the city to see Batman in a true IMAX theater, which Kris had never been to. We got there and all I could think about while watching it was the horrible incident in Colorado, so I don't think I enjoyed the movie as much as I could have. Anyway, it was a good movie and Kris liked seeing it on the Big, big screen. After that, we decided to walk around the huge mall there and window shop. Kris however, insisted that we get our jackets from the car first. I couldn't understand why because it was pretty warm outside and we were going to be in the mall anyway; but we went to the car because he insisted. Now before I go on, I will say that while we were driving to SF, I got a few texts from various people wishing me a happy birthday...most of you know its not until August 22nd, so you can imagine that I was slightly confused. Then they all said facebook was saying it was my birthday so I took it as a computer glich and didn't think much more about it. That is until, Kris and I got back to his car to get the jackets. He opened his trunk and said  "Well, since everyone thinks its your birthday, then I guess you will get a present early." And then he pulls out this super cute jacket from the car. Now, don't get me wrong, I love my jacket but it seemed like a lot of trouble to go to for just a jacket...yet, once again...I didn't think too much of it. We walked into the mall and did not get to far when I felt something in the pocket of my brand new, super cute jacket. I fished around and pulled out and envelope. Inside were two tickets to see Les Miserables at the Orpheum theater that night! I loveeeee that play! Kris apparently had the tickets since November and had been planning all of this since then! I was so flipping excited! We continued to walk around the mall for a while as we waited to head to the play. Kris got me some chocolate from Godiva which is always delicious and we got other things here and there. Then we left and headed to what I thought would be the theater...instead we ended up at the Salt House, a delicious restaurant where Kris had made reservations! I sometimes can't believe how sweet he is and how much he spoils me! So we eat oysters and salmon. We drank fruity drinks (mine was virgin) and enjoy the cool little place that he suprised me with.




 After we were done, our waiter hailed a cab for us and we were off to the theater! I was so excited to go and see the play, I knew it would be a whole different experience from when I first saw it on Broadway. The stage in SF is a lot smaller so the setting would need to be altered and of course different actors always mean different portrayals of the characters. The sets ended up being really cool, the illusions they used to make the areas look bigger were awesome. Jean Valjean was amazing to say the least! The only part I didn't really enjoy was the actresses who played young and old Cosette. They both had weird voices that didn't seem to fit the songs. All in all though, it was a wonderful representation of Victor Hugo's classic and I am so glad I got to go! Thank you love!


By the time we got back to the beach house, we were both exhausted. We were still sore from the surfing fiasco the day before and now we had sore feet and headaches from movies and plays. Overall though, we had a great time. Kris even enjoyed the play a bit! Haha and that is saying something!

The following day was expected be another busy one but in a good way, a lot of the things fell through so it was more relaxing then we thought. A few weeks before, I won concert tickets to see Kelly Clarkson (who I wasn't really interested in) and the Fray (who I wanted to see) as a qualifying prize for something else (which I did not win). The concert was on Wednesday and Kris and I were going to go just because we had free tickets and, well, why not? Well the issue was, the radio station I won them from, mailed them to my house, only I wasn't at my house, I was at the beach. So driving three hours away to get them seemed like a big deal but we were still planning on it. I get a call later from the station saying that actually sent us four tickets because they had some extras. In my mind, this made the trip a bit more worth while because we could make it a group thing. Well, when Wednesday came around, Kris was not really interested in going anymore-- his cousin Stefanie and her husband (Chris Bell and one of Kris' best friends) came down to the beach house for a visit. I could tell Kris just wanted to hang out there, but I decided I was still going to go. That is, until I called my brother and have him tell me what seats we had for the concert. To my surprise, they were horrible seats and not only that, the station only sent us the two tickets! At that point, I knew other people who wanted to go with us so I instead told them to go ahead and use the tickets and I would stay at the beach. That was the plan until another person backed out and only my friend Kayleigh was willing to go to the concert. Not wanting to go alone, she ended up letting it slip by and the tickets went to waste. Honestly though, no one really cared because they were free, crappy seats and a big hassle. So instead, Kris and I hung out on the beach the rest of the day, hanging out with Stef and Bell and their little baby girl, Rowen. I am glad that that's how it all ended up, because the past few days were so busy, it was nice just to chill out.



The other good thing about not going to the concert is I got to see Kris go skim boarding, which he is actually pretty good at; however, he still had some awesome wipeouts that I was lucky enough to capture with my camera:





It was rather fun watching him show his stuff. He had told me for a long time that he was good at it but I never got to witness it until that point.

Before I go on, I forgot to mention that that second night we were there, someone a few houses down started setting off fireworks from the shore line, so we got a bit a of show over the ocean...it was pretty cool!
That was the best photo I could get with my phone...but you can see the waves just below.

Okay, wow this is a long post! So, whats next? Ahh yes! Capitola and the board walk! On Thursday, Kris and I went to Capitola to eat at one of our favorite places over there, Zelda's. Sadly they changed their menu a bit so it wasn't quite the same, still good though. The other sucky thing it, Kris and I both felt crappy, him from drinking a lot of seawater while skim boarding and me...well I don't know why I was. We still enjoyed walking around, looking in the shops. I got some cute toe rings and some fun rubber ducks for my Aunt Eileen, whose birthday was a couple of days ago. After all that, we ate some ice cream and headed off to the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk where we met up with Kris's sister and brother in law.


At the boardwalk, we did all the usual fun things. We went and played mini golf, then we went on the bumper cars, where I beat everyone!

 After that we went on the Ferris wheel, it was fun but rather cold up there next to the ocean!
 





Once we got off the Ferris wheel, Kris and decided to get some food. We are big fans of corn dogs so we thought we could get a couple of those-- which was a great plan until an employee put in an order for 15 corn dogs right before us so we ended up waiting for 30 minutes just to get two! They felt bad for us though and threw in an extra one for our trouble. After eating we did various games and rides. The best one however was the Giant Dipper, which is the old roller coaster at that boardwalk. It wasn't the best because it was more fun than the other rides...it was the best because of the picture that came with riding it....
We had quite a few people commenting on our photo hahaha.

To end the day we took a ride on the merry-go-round, only because they have a game where if you sit on the outer edge, you can grab these rings and try to throw them into this clown mouth. I never played before and I still didn't get the chance to because the ring dispenser thing broke right when  we got on. It was still fun though.

 The last day at the beach was complete relaxation. We didn't do anything except for sit in the sand and soak up the sun. I am glad too because I was pooped from the day before. 
Now, you may think this would be the end of my post...finally, right? Nope! Because we had yet one more adventure the next day when were supposed to be coming home. Kris and I got the car all packed up and headed out from the beach, only to get maybe a mile away when I made Kris stop the car. No, we did not forget anything (I think), but we did see a dog running in and out of the road. Now, anyone who knows me, knows I am a bleeding heart for animals, thus why I had a zoo in the house while growing up. So I get out of the car and go towards the dog, who doesn't bark or growl...he just whimpers and bit and walks towards me. The sweet old guy had a graying muzzle and adorable eyes. He instantly starts licking my hand and wagging his tail. He didn't have a collar but he had just been recently treated for fleas because he had a flea collar on. I took him around to all the houses around there, asking if anyone knew him. Sadly, no one knew where he came from but they all thought he was a sweet dog. Finally, after two hours of searching, Kris (who was not thrilled by this turn of events) let me bring the dog into the car so we could take him to the Santa Cruz shelter. The puppy was so good in the car, just laid on the floor quietly and didn't move-- which was really good because if he was hyper, Kris may not have let him in. We got to the shelter and all the ladies there fell in love with him instantly, they said if no one claims him, he should have no problem getting adopted. I am glad that we stopped, and I am glad Kris let me save the poor old puppy. I got an ID number for the dog so I can keep track of him at the shelter and see if he gets claimed or adopted. I hope he does because it wasn't a "no kill" shelter and I would feel awful if the guy got put down! Then he might have been better off staying lost...who knows. Anyway, if he doesn't get adopted and anyone wants an old sweet, lab mix... I got the dog for you!


Okay...so I think that is it! Really! Its over! Long post over! Sorry for my writing style in this one (or lack there of). My head is in a fog today but I was determined to get this all on here today! I have other stuff to post about stuff the past couple of days but it can wait. I hope you all survived this read! Have a good one!





Thursday, July 12, 2012

Newborns and Tattoos...and Money...

So, other than the fact that at the moment, my hand is stinging like crazy from pouring scalding water all over it-- my week has been pretty decent. Well, my past two weeks or so...kinda, well whatever-- I am remembering the good things and not the bad so therefore, it is decent!

I will start off with the fourth of July. I almost always spend the fourth with my family. Throughout the year, Kris and I alternate holidays between his family and mine; yes, its like we are married, I know but we just try to split our time as best as we can.  So, independence day is usually spent with my aunt Eileen at her house where there is a ton of food and a decent view of fireworks from her backyard. This year however, we spent the day at my house...with not a lot of food and no view except from the upstairs bathroom. I was a little confused by the switch up but it all worked out because Eileen brought over a crap load of sandwich stuff and we drove up to a hill behind our house to watch some of the fireworks around our area.  Before we did that though, my boss gave my sister some temporary tattoos, which my sister and I gladly adorned ourselves with. I am mad I didn't get a picture of Ana's because she looked very tough with her glittery wolf tattoo. I did get a  photo of mine though, Kris colored it in masterfully. 
Then Kris wrote a sweet little message on my hand, which I accidentally washed mostly off before I took the picture... (I am slacking on my photo taking lately, sorry!)
It says A+K which was very cute and random on his part...

Finally, to add to the fun, Eileen brought a bunch of little, silly party favors that a certain eleven year old went crazy for....
And by "eleven year old", I mean Charlie Chaplin (taking a poop apparently)...

So there are no pictures of fireworks for me to share, however, we all know what those look like and I never can take any good pictures of them anyway. 

Okay, well, that was the fourth...everything else is just little things that made me happy over the past few days or so. The first and biggest one is that I am getting a raise. Apparently I have done such a great job with the kid, that his parents want to give me more money-- I will not argue with them. I am only getting a dollar raise for now but they said that they might apply for some insurance thing that will cover day car and sitter costs, which they said whatever money they get from that, I will get, so who knows how much I will really be getting! Another little work related tid bit is I am getting a full week off for Kris' family beach trip. I was afraid that my boss wouldn't be able to give me the time but they said that they can work it out because I deserve a nice vacation (they are just so darn nice!) I love, love, love the beach trip Kris' family takes, I have only ever got to go once, but it was my favorite. All you really can do is relax and eat and relax some more, and take naps...like, ALL of my favorite things wrapped up into one awesome week! I can't wait! 

What else was I going to say? The thought of endless food and nap time made me forgetful... Oh yes! The other happy things, so, in my last post I mentioned how Kris' cousin Stef and her husband (Kris' best friend) Chris Bell had their baby, little Rowen Jean, well we got to go up to their house a couple of days ago and I got to hold the little sweetie again. Now, before anyone says it, or thinks it, or even wants to think it...I do not want no babies right now! I just miss holding the little stinkers. After watching a five year old all the time, and then coming home and seeing my gigantic eleven year old sister running around, looking like a teenager-- its nice just to hold a little, tiny newborn. For some reason, new born babies are just calming to me. So Stef and Bell, if you ever need a sitter, let me know, I will happily come and watch your little girl. 

Let's see, oh, yeah, the last little thing is, I am losing weight! Woot! Not much, not as fast as I would like, but I am losing it. A little while ago, I started going off bread and started going gluten free, just to see if it would help some tummy stuff I had going on, and thankfully, it had been helping. On top of that, it has helped me lose a few pounds too. Of course I have been exercising more and trying not to eat nearly as much sugary crap as I have been but, I just feel better so I am glad it is working. Now I wish that I could be down to the weight I want to be at in time for the beach, but I know I just need to take the little triumphs where I can. 

Okay, well, that was not a very exciting post but hopefully in a couple of weeks, I will have a lot of cool beach photos to share with you all and a bunch of fun stories...ya know, if I ever wake up from my many naps to make any fun stories. Thanks for reading!

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Sometimes I Forget...

  Even when I thought about writing this particular blog, I was not really motivated to. Lately, a lot of stressful things have been happening-- so much so I even broke out into hives. I could post about them like I usually do but instead I think I will post about all the things that make me happy or that I am lucky to have in my life. I did this a long time ago-- just for myself and it helped a lot, so maybe doing it now will give me some much needed perspective.

Here we go...

I am thankful to have a comfy bed to sleep in at night and food to eat when I wake up. I am so happy that my family is alive and well and doing what they do, even if what they do frustrates me. I am happy that I have a job and a boss who understands that my school is important to me as well as some free time every now and then. I am happy that I was able to save some money a buy a reliable little car to get me to school and work and back home again. I am thankful that I am responsible for myself and even for the people around me. I am so very glad that in my sad, depressed times, I have a boyfriend who would bend over backwards on a high-wire just to put a smile on my face; I am thankful that just seeing his face puts a smile on mine. I am happy that I am healthy and trying to get healthier-- even if I do not stick to it all the time. I am grateful to all my family members, especially my aunt Eileen, who help me out when things get tough, or even when they aren't so tough. I am happy that I do not go looking for that kind of help even though I know its there. It makes me happy that I have a few great friends, and even the friends that I have lost-- I am lucky that they were in my life and taught me things. I am so glad I got to see my best friend Audrey last month because it strengthened our friendship even more. I am happy that I have Kayleigh to talk to about all the little things in life because we are truly kindred spirits (I just wish we could hang out more often! ) I am blessed to have two Grandparents who never stop believing in me and supporting my efforts in life. I am so grateful to have my Dad and a renewed relationship with him even though he is far away. I am grateful to have my Mom as my mom, she knows so much and always is willing to help me if she can and loves me no matter what happens in my life.  I am lucky to be able to afford the little luxuries in life and even the big ones-- I know many people do not even have the necessities. I am so lucky to be going to the school that I do even if it will take me longer to finish due to financial burdens. I am grateful that I posses the drive and knowledge to be doing so well in my school work and to have made the Honor's list nearly every quarter I have attended. I am so glad I get to experience other people's happiness and joyous occasions-- I met Jenn and Dan's little girl Audrey, and Stef and Chris Bell's little girl Rowen, Kris' family vacations and birthdays, everyone's holiday parties and so much more.  I am even grateful for all the hardships in my life and all the people who have left me, didn't like me or even put me down because I grew from that negativity and did not waste away in it like I see so many people do; I also did not regress back into that negative environment just because it was easier than growing-- I am thankful for my inner strength. Most of all, I am thankful for being able to recognize these things and to be able to say "thank you" to all those who have made me happy, my life would not be as good as it is without you all in it. Thank you!

So that is my list and I know I had some "if's and's and but's" in there but I am still realistic-- I am thankful for that too. I know that some things in my life are not good but they will never outweigh the good. I feel a little bit better about things now-- if you have a bad day or a few of them, I suggest you make a list too. Thank you for reading.